But even given that, I think the campaign makes a case that using the word “gay” in derogratory contexts is hurtful to many, many people. It is not saying the word is inappropriate to use in correct contexts; for example, a person may self-identify as “gay” in their sexual orientation. The ad is trying to persuade you to make a change in your behavior, but it is not forcing, compelling, or penalizing you for not making that change. This ad/PSA is attempting to educate and influence people, but there is no power in it to take away your right to freedom of speech.

Apart from that, the advertisement is sensitive, well-produced, creative, timely, and much-needed. I am glad it is on the air. I hope you will consider that point of view, and refrain from using the word “gay” as an insult or descriptive term for something bad in the future. You have the right to say what you want in the privacy of your own home, but you should be aware of the limitations of freedom of speech in terms of how it affects other people. Other people have rights, too. People have the right to be treated humanely, and our laws support that. For example, that speech would not be acceptable in any public school or workplace. Continuing to use hurtful speech like this doesn’t help you, and it is very hurtful to many people.